ATTENTION: Believers who long to stop repeating the same fights over and over...
Your home doesn’t have to stay a battlefield! It can become sacred ground again
Resolve even the most painful conflict—quickly, lovingly, and without needing your spouse to change first.
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Conflict
Resolving Relational
Conflicts Quickly
The Secret Weapon To healing your relationships
10-Lesson Course with Craig Hill
Have you ever walked away from an argument with your spouse feeling more alone than before you even spoke?

You were just trying to share how you felt…

They were just trying to explain their side…

And yet somehow, both of you ended up hurt—again.
  • Why does it feel like you’re speaking two different languages?
  • ​Why does the same fight keep showing up in new disguises?
  • How would you like to be so in step with the Father that you hear His voice, sense His Presence, and feel His love 24/7?
  • ​What if you could eliminate striving and simply flow in full assurance of the Father’s adoration and approval?
  • ​What if you were so infused with God’s love that you “leaked”?
Here’s the truth: most conflict isn’t about what was said.

It’s about what was felt but never spoken.
It’s about unseen wounds, unspoken fears, and the deep, often silent cry of the heart:

“Do you see me? Do I matter to you?”

And when that cry goes unheard, something starts to unravel. 

But you’re not doomed to stay stuck in this cycle.

In this powerful 10-lesson course, Craig Hill reveals a simple yet profound truth:

Conflict is not the enemy. It’s an opportunity—a sacred doorway—to heal what’s been hurting far too long.
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This is not about “trying harder.” It’s about learning to love in a way that actually lands on your spouse’s heart.

Whether you’re in a storm or just want to grow stronger together, this course is for you.

It’s time to stop reacting and start reconnecting.

To stop justifying and start healing.
To stop fighting each other—and start fighting for each other.

If you’re ready to dissolve conflicts quickly, repair emotional connection, and feel truly seen, heard, and valued by your spouse again, you won’t want to miss this powerful course.

In this course, you will:

  • Understand the spiritual forces behind repeated conflict (Ephesians 6:11)
  • Shift your conversations from surface-level (Level 1) to heart-level (Level 2)
  • Apply five powerful strategies to resolve conflict in just minutes
  • ​Recognize the needs your spouse is trying to express—without words
  • ​Offer apologies that truly heal—not just “smooth things over”
  • ​Fill your spouse’s “fuel tank”—with the kind of love or respect they long for
  • ​Break toxic patterns of defending, accusing, or shutting down
  • ​Rebuild emotional connection and restore trust
  • ​Become the peacemaker and atmosphere shifter in your home
  • ​Create a daily rhythm that keeps your relationship healthy, open, and strong
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Course Lessons
Overview of the 10-Lesson Course

Course description by Craig Hill

Lesson 1: The Source of Marital Conflict
In this foundational lesson, Craig Hill shares the powerful story of his own 7-year journey through marital strife and breakthrough. You’ll learn how most conflicts begin on the surface but are fueled by a deeper emotional disconnect. Discover the “arms dealer” behind your arguments, why one spouse often feels devalued while the other feels falsely accused, and the two crucial levels of communication. With vivid examples, you will recognize patterns in your own relationship and understand why your efforts to communicate often backfire. This lesson sets the stage for a transformational shift by revealing five essential steps to move your marriage from tension to connection.

Preview: Lesson 1

Lesson 2: Resolving Conflict from a Husband’s Perspective
Empathy is the game-changer. In this lesson, Craig Hill equips husbands with insight and practical strategies to restore peace and trust in their marriages. You will discover how empathy—not explanation or defense—is the key to resolving conflict. Learn how to identify and answer the question your wife is really asking: “Do you love me?” Through powerful real-life examples and biblical strategies modeled by Jesus, you’ll learn how to stop arguments in their tracks and restore emotional safety. By mastering five empathy-based tools, husbands can move conversations from surface-level arguments to heart-level connection.

Preview: Lesson 2

Lesson 3: The Human Fuel Tank from a Husband’s Perspective
Every wife has an invisible fuel tank that runs on love, not logic. In this eye-opening lesson, you will explore the unique ways women interpret love—feeling like a top priority, being listened to, and having their pain acknowledged. Craig Hill shows how common responses like justifying or defending yourself only deplete your wife’s value tank. Instead, you’ll learn how to consistently answer her three emotional questions and fill her tank through five empathy-driven strategies. When you apply these steps, you won’t just resolve conflict—you will create a safe, loving environment that strengthens the heart of your marriage.

Preview: Lesson 3

Lesson 4: Understanding the Human Fuel Tank from a Wife’s Perspective
Respect is the fuel that drives a husband’s heart. In this lesson, wives will gain insight into what respect truly means to most men: being accepted as he is, admired for his strengths, and appreciated for his efforts. Craig Hill unpacks the cycle that drains a man’s emotional tank and reveals how certain behaviors—even well-intentioned ones—can lead to deep disconnection. You will learn how to shift from criticism and comparison to honor and intercession, and discover how Ephesians 5:33 becomes a life-giving roadmap for every wife who desires a stronger, more united marriage.

Preview: Lesson 4

Lesson 5: Five Strategies a Wife Can Use to Resolve Conflict in 5 Minutes
Wives, you have incredible power to bring quick resolution to even the most heated arguments—and it starts by shifting your approach. In this practical lesson, Craig Hill outlines five simple yet profound strategies that help you meet your husband’s need for respect, even in moments of conflict. You will discover how to move the conversation to a deeper level by asking two key questions, take responsibility for any disrespect communicated, and offer sincere appreciation. These steps don’t just answer his unspoken questions—they rebuild connection, foster peace, and demonstrate the respect that restores.
Lesson 6: Why Is It So Hard to Ask Forgiveness
If you’ve ever struggled to apologize or felt like your efforts only made things worse, this lesson will unlock why. Craig Hill reveals the inner “lawyer” that rises up during conflict and keeps us stuck in blame and self-justification. You will learn how to stop building your case and start building a bridge by understanding the three questions every wounded heart needs answered before true forgiveness can occur. Through biblical insight and practical wisdom, you’ll discover the attitudes that make an apology powerful and the keys to genuine, healing reconciliation.
Lesson 7: Six Key Steps to an Effective Apology That Truly Works
Not all apologies bring healing. In this powerful lesson, Craig Hill introduces six transformational steps, adapted from Ford Taylor's leadership model, that unlock the door to real forgiveness. You’ll learn how to acknowledge the pain you’ve caused, express genuine empathy, and take full responsibility—even if you weren't “wrong” on the surface. By mastering these six steps, you’ll stop repeating the same mistakes and start creating a culture of humility, accountability, and love in your marriage. These are the words that work—and they can heal even the deepest wounds.
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Lesson 8: Take a Daily Marriage Environmental Impact Survey
Want a stronger marriage? Make daily check-ins a habit. In this lesson, Craig Hill introduces the Marriage Environmental Impact Survey—a powerful tool to assess how your actions are affecting your spouse’s emotional tank. Learn how husbands and wives can ask insightful, compassionate questions that reveal hurts, uncover unmet needs, and lead to daily repentance, empathy, and healing. You’ll also be introduced to the Six-Minute Prayer, a daily rhythm of repentance, gratitude, and blessing that can shift the entire atmosphere of your home.
Lesson 9: Building a Relational Marriage Covenant for the Future
A strong marriage needs more than love—it needs a covenant. In this crucial lesson, you’ll discover how to co-create a relational agreement with your spouse that outlines how you want to treat each other and what steps you’ll take when those commitments are violated. Using biblical principles and practical frameworks, Craig Hill guides you through a process of setting shared values, confronting in love, and walking in humility, empathy, and truth. This isn’t just about avoiding conflict—it’s about building a future of trust, unity, and answered prayer.
Lesson 10: Summary of Resolving Conflicts
In this final lesson, you will pull together everything you’ve learned throughout the course and activate the key principles in your own marriage. Craig Hill recaps the tools, insights, and biblical strategies that lead to rapid conflict resolution and lasting relational health. Whether you’re just beginning your journey or already experiencing breakthrough, this session will help you solidify your next steps and walk confidently in a marriage built on love, respect, and connection.
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How this course Works
Craig Hill has pre-recorded the 10 lessons in this course, so you may watch the videos and complete the assignments at your convenience.

Each lesson averages 30-45 minutes in length, with a time of teaching and practical application.
The 10 main lessons:
  • ​Lesson 1: The Source of Marital Conflict
  • ​Lesson 2: Resolving Conflict from a Husband’s Perspective
  • ​Lesson 3: The Human Fuel Tank from a Husband’s Perspective
  • ​Lesson 4: Understanding the Human Fuel Tank from a Wife’s Perspective
  • ​Lesson 5: Five Strategies a Wife Can Use to Resolve Conflict in 5 Minutes
  • ​Lesson 6: Why Is It So Hard to Ask Forgiveness
  • ​Lesson 7: Six Key Steps to an Effective Apology That Truly Works
  • ​Lesson 8: Take a Daily Marriage Environmental Impact Survey
  • ​Lesson 9: Building a Relational Marriage Covenant for the Future.
  • ​Lesson 10: Summary of Resolving Conflicts
Each lesson includes:
  • An in-depth video teaching
  • ​An MP3 audio recording
  • ​A study guide
  • ​A transcript
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As you work through the video lessons, you will likely think of questions for Craig Hill. These LIVE sessions provide a great space for you process with others in the course and hear Craig Hill answer member questions.

It’s okay if you are unable to join a LIVE session, because we will post the replays in the course member area.

As a member, you will have LIFETIME access to video and audio replays, transcripts, study guides, and relevant bonus resources to reinforce and supplement what you are learning in each session.

You can easily participate in this training from the comfort of your own home, your office, or wherever you happen to be in the world! All you need is a phone, tablet, or computer with a reasonably fast internet connection.
3 LIVE Interactive Q&A sessions with small group breakouts:
    • LIVE Q&A for Lessons 1-3 (Wed, July 16 at 4 pm Eastern)
    • ​LIVE Q&A for Lessons 4-6 (Wed, July 30 at 4 pm Eastern)
    • ​LIVE Q&A for Lessons 7-10 (Wed, August 13 at 4 pm Eastern)
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    You’ll also receive the following
    Bonuses!
    BONUS:
    60% Cash Savings
    The normal retail price for this 10-Lesson Course with LIVE Q&As and all associated resources is $1,000. However, you receive a $600 savings, making your price only $400.
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    BONUS:
    70% Cash Savings
    (Must sign up by JUly 8)
    The normal retail price for this 10-Lesson Course with LIVE Q&As and all associated resources is $1,000. However, you receive a $700 savings, making your price only $300.
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    Bonus Class
    BONUS 2:
    Forgiveness From the Heart
    8-Lesson Class with Craig Hill
    (Must sign up by July 5)
    No matter the current state of your relationships, or how deep your pain from the past, you can be truly free.

    If you want to experience the radical power of forgiveness and walk in the freedom of God’s love and grace, you won’t want to miss this class!

    This class will teach you: 
    • Why forgiveness from the mind doesn’t work
    •  What blocks forgiveness from the heart
    • How to effectively deal with offense
    • ​The power of Jesus’ blood to pay the debt owed you
    • ​God’s remedy for heart pain, bitterness, anger, and brokenness from betrayal and injustice
    • ​How to disarm defense mechanisms and tear down idols to open the way for God’s grace and power to redeem what the enemy has stolen
    • ​Keys to overcome your past and soften the hardened soil of your heart into good ground to receive and extend God’s unconditional love, forgiveness, and freedom
    • ​How a soft heart of fertile soil will quickly improve every relationship in your life
    BONUS 3:
    Solve any Marriage Conflict in 5 Minutes or Less 
    Pre-release Ebook by Craig Hill 
    (Must sign up by July 2)
    What if you could stop arguments before they spiral and restore connection in just minutes? 

    Resolve Every Marriage Conflict in Five Minutes or Less offers a simple, faith-filled roadmap to help couples break cycles of blame and defensiveness while deepening emotional intimacy. Drawing from over 35 years of personal experience and biblical wisdom, this practical guide reveals how to meet your spouse’s deepest needs—love for wives, respect for husbands—and resolve disagreements with empathy, humility, and grace.

    Inside, you'll discover five proven conflict-resolution strategies, a six-step apology that truly heals, daily habits that strengthen connection (like the 6-Minute Prayer), and a biblical covenant that brings unity and peace. 

    Whether you're newly married, navigating a rough patch, or seeking to rekindle romance, this book equips you to transform your relationship—starting with just five intentional minutes a day.

    Bonus course
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    Awesome Testimonies
    This course will help empower you to be equipped to walk in hope and healing!
    "Very encouraging”— L.J.

    “The Q & A answers were very valuable.” —H.A. 

    Thank you, Dr Peck, Shellie, and the rest of the team. "Your excellence cannot be faulted.” —B.J
    “I thought that it was very real, and down to earth...it makes it easier to understand why a marriage has difficulties and the bridges that need to be built and crossed,” T.A.

    “Excellent video.”  —D.C.

    Relationships are an investment of time and energy. I don't want them to fail since I can do something about it and take this class  — M.V.
    Summary OF wHAT yOU gET
    summary of what you get
    10-lesson training
    • ​Lesson 1: The Source of Marital Conflict
    • ​Lesson 2: Resolving Conflict from a Husband’s Perspective
    • ​Lesson 3: The Human Fuel Tank from a Husband’s Perspective
    • ​Lesson 4: Understanding the Human Fuel Tank from a Wife’s Perspective
    • ​Lesson 5: Five Strategies a Wife Can Use to Resolve Conflict in 5 Minutes
    • ​Lesson 6: Why Is It So Hard to Ask Forgiveness
    • ​Lesson 7: Six Key Steps to an Effective Apology That Truly Works
    • ​Lesson 8: Take a Daily Marriage Environmental Impact Survey
    • ​Lesson 9: Building a Relational Marriage Covenant for the Future
    • ​Lesson 10: Summary of Resolving Conflicts
    3 LIVE interactive Q&A sessions
    • LIVE Q&A for Lessons 1-3 (Wed, July 16 at 4 pm Eastern)
    • ​LIVE Q&A for Lessons 4-6 (Wed, July 30 at 4 pm Eastern)
    • ​​LIVE Q&A for Lessons 7-10 (Wed, Aug 13 at 4 pm Eastern)
    Bonuses
    • 60% savings: $400 instead of $1000
    • 70% savings: $300 instead of $1000 (sign up by July 8)
    • Forgiveness From the Heart – 8-Lesson Class with Craig Hill (sign up by July 5)
    • Solve any Marriage Conflict in 5 Minutes or Less – Ebook by Craig Hill(sign up by July 2)
    Additional benefits
    • LIFETIME course access
    • ​Video replays
    • ​MP3 audio
    • ​Transcripts
    • ​Study guides
    The Empower 2000 Guarantee
    This life-transforming course will help you learn how to dissolve conflicts quickly, repair emotional connection, and feel truly seen, heard, and valued by your spouse again.

    If you are not delighted with the training and the results you experience, simply email us within 30 days of when the course starts and we will either reconcile the problem or gladly refund all your money.

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    Biography
    Craig Hill is the founder of Family Foundations International (FFI), a Christian ministry dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families become people of influence and build a godly heritage for multiple generations by restoring biblical foundations of marriage, family, and finance.

    Craig has trained permanent FFI ministry teams in more than fifty nations around the world, conducting over 2500 marriage and family blessing weekend experiences each year. He has written 15 books, including the best sellers, The Power of a Parent’s Blessing and Five Wealth Secrets 96% of Us Don’t Know. Craig and his wife Jan have been married since 1977 and have two married sons and three grandchildren.
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